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Comparing Your Weight Loss to Social Media Posts

Quick answer: Comparing yourself to keto before-and-after posts is a bad measuring stick, because those posts are a highlight reel. Some are exaggerated, some show loss rates nobody could keep up, and none of them started from your baseline. KetoDick's view is that social media can do more harm than the scale itself (video dNUvzMl-OEU). Compare yourself to your own day one instead.

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The myth: if they lost it that fast, you should too

You join a keto group. Within a day you've seen someone down 30 pounds in two months, a dress-size drop in a few weeks, and a side-by-side photo that looks like two different people. Then you step on your own scale, and you're down a pound and a half since last Tuesday.

The myth is that their number is the normal one and yours is the problem. It isn't. What you're looking at is a filtered sample, and you're comparing your whole week to the best moment of someone else's year.

Why the feed is a highlight reel

KetoDick lays this out in a two-minute video (video dNUvzMl-OEU). Three things happen in those feeds:

  1. Nobody posts the bad days. People share their best moment and their most dramatic before-and-after. Next to that, an average day "almost always" looks like failure, from the video.
  2. Not everything posted is true. Starting weights, how long someone has been on the diet, and dress sizes can be stretched. He says it plainly in another video: some people are lying (video UygKGoP_BtA).
  3. Nobody questions it. It isn't polite to ask, so an unrealistic number sits there collecting congratulations.

He went the other way on purpose. When he woke up five pounds heavier than the day before, he posted it, because nobody posts on the day they gain (video f9P8BPWHc4U). That's the day the feed never shows you.

Different starting lines

Even honest posts aren't a fair comparison, because people start from different places.

Someone coming off a diet heavy in fast food and salt will see bigger early drops (video dNUvzMl-OEU). A lot of that first drop is water. KetoDick's week-by-week schedule puts week one at about three pounds of water for most people and seven to ten for heavier people, as stored glycogen and the water held with it get flushed (video uDw65ERtsA0).

So a 300-pound person's first month and a 160-pound person's first month aren't the same event. Same diet, different arithmetic.

When fast stops being good

This is the part he takes most seriously. Some posted rates, he says, aren't reasonable or healthy, and some may be crash dieting or disordered eating that nobody calls out (video dNUvzMl-OEU).

In his video on hunger, he warns that the race for social-media results can tip people toward anorexia, and that anyone restricting on purpose should include their doctor in the plan (video 7Aixw4uRksI). That's a real risk for a lot of readers here, and it's why "be patient" isn't just a nice phrase.

What the research says

None of the evidence pages on this site study social media itself. What the trials do show is what weight loss looks like for ordinary people when nobody is curating the results:

Averages hide people who did much better and much worse. But they're a far more honest picture than a feed made of the top few percent of results.

KetoDick's take

His position is that social media deserves the same suspicion as the scale (video dNUvzMl-OEU). He already tells beginners to skip the scale for the first 30 days and give the diet a full 60 days before judging it (video uDw65ERtsA0), and not to post weights in that first month, because early loss is mostly water (video cTGYIFOTPl8). In month one, he says, weight isn't a "key performance indicator" at all (video xyEZL0HuejI).

From month two, he puts typical loss at roughly half a pound to two pounds a week, and he says straight out: don't compare yourself to social media (video UygKGoP_BtA). His closing advice in the short video is to watch how much time you spend looking at the feed the same way you'd watch how often you step on the scale (video dNUvzMl-OEU).

What to compare instead

So what you do is compare yourself to you.

  1. Take photos on day one. Front, side, same lighting. He recommends this from the start (video UygKGoP_BtA).
  2. Measure. A tape, or his yarn-on-the-wall method, catches changes the scale misses (video UygKGoP_BtA). More in Losing inches but not weight.
  3. Weigh weekly, not hourly, once you're past the first 30 days (video uDw65ERtsA0). See How often should you weigh yourself?.
  4. Track the things that changed. Hunger, energy, how your clothes fit, whether you're still on the plan in month three.
  5. Mute or leave groups that make you feel worse. You don't owe a feed your attention.

If you have a history of an eating disorder, or you notice yourself restricting harder every time you scroll, bring in your doctor and, if you have one, your therapist. KetoDick says this specifically for anyone with an eating-disorder history (video xyEZL0HuejI). See Keto and eating disorders.

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